Calm Communication.
Evenli.
The UK co-parenting communication app for separated families.
Choose Evenli Bridge for two co-parents.
Or Evenli Link for the wider family — up to 6 members on one account.
Built for families
"You NEVER pick them up on time. You clearly don't care."
Uses absolutes ("never") and an accusation that's likely to escalate.
"It would really help if pickups could be on time. It makes a big difference for the kids."
How Evenli Works
Four simple steps to turn highly emotional co-parenting moments into productive, calm conversations.
Create your account
Sign up and choose your plan: Evenli Bridge for two co-parents, or Evenli Link for the wider family — up to 6 members. Invite them with a simple invite code.
Install on your phone
Add Evenli to your home screen on iPhone or Android — no app store, no downloads. It works in any browser.
Focused messaging with AI support
Before delivery, Evenli quietly suggests a calmer rewrite when language gets heated — you choose what to send.
Child-focused delivery
What arrives is thoughtful and measured, removing tension and fostering respect.
Beyond messaging
Quiet tools for the things that usually cause arguments — kept clear, timestamped, and shared.
Shared Family Calendar
- Coordinate schedules in one place
- Timestamped event history
- Clear record of changes
- Sync with Google Calendar and Apple Calendar
- Read-only external sync to keep Evenli as source of truth
Transparent Expense Tracking
- Log shared costs clearly
- Timestamped submissions
- Reduce disputes with structured records
- Visible to linked professionals (if enabled)
Canvas — Handover & Documentation
- Confirm child handovers with timestamped check-in
- Maintain private notes (750 character limit)
- Share important documents via secure URLs
- Visible history for clarity and accountability
Designed to support structured communication while reducing unnecessary escalation.
Built for UK co-parenting and separated families
Co-parenting communication after separation is hard — especially when emotions run high. Evenli is the UK co-parenting app designed to act as a neutral, calming buffer, keeping the focus on your children and building a record you can rely on.
Separated parents navigating tension
Remove the sting from logistics and scheduling discussions.
Co-parents post-mediation
Maintain calm, structured communication after agreements are in place.
Parents with new partners
Keep co-parenting communication separate, respectful and on the record.
High-emotion situations
A built-in buffer when you need to step back before responding.
Peace of mind
Knowing every message sent and received will be respectful and calm.
Choose the right plan for your family
Evenli Bridge for two co-parents, or Evenli Link for the wider family — up to 6 users. Same features, same calm communication.
Evenli Bridge
For two co-parents.
Billed annually at £216 for both users. Pay it yourself, or split it £108 each.
One annual subscription, paid by one user. Auto-renews yearly. 28-day cancellation policy applies.
Evenli Link
Same features, for the wider family.
Billed annually at £300 for the whole family. One subscription paid by one user.
One annual subscription, paid by one user. Auto-renews yearly. 28-day cancellation policy applies.
Are you a legal expert or professional? Sponsor a family on a Professional account and we'll send you an activation code to share.
Frequently asked questions
Common questions about co-parenting communication, pricing and how Evenli compares to other apps.
- Evenli is a co-parenting communication app that uses AI to score every message for conflict before you send it and offer a calmer rewrite. You stay in control — you decide whether to send the original or the rewritten version. Alongside messaging, Evenli gives separated families a shared calendar, transparent expense tracking and timestamped handover records.
- Yes — Evenli is a UK-built co-parenting communication app designed specifically for families going through separation or divorce in the UK. Unlike Our Family Wizard, Evenli is ICO-registered (ZC102321), GDPR-compliant, priced in pounds with no per-feature add-ons, and includes AI message support in every plan. It installs as a PWA on iPhone or Android — no app store required.
- Evenli is built specifically for UK co-parenting families — with UK law, ICO registration, and UK family court requirements in mind. It combines AI-supported messaging, a shared family calendar, expense tracking, and timestamped PDF exports in a single flat-price subscription (from £9/month per parent on Evenli Bridge). Compare Evenli to other co-parenting apps on our comparison page.
- Only if you choose to grant access. Professional access is permission-based, read-only, and revocable by you at any time. Evenli never shares your data with a professional without your explicit action.
- Yes. Evenli is registered with the UK ICO (registration ZC102321), all traffic is encrypted in transit, AI processing is server-side under contractual safeguards, and your messages are never used to train AI models. Messages auto-delete 28 days after sending — you're emailed two days before deletion so you can export to PDF.
- Yes. Evenli is a Progressive Web App, so you install it from your browser (Safari on iPhone, Chrome on Android) by adding it to your home screen. There is nothing to download from the App Store or Google Play.
- Evenli Bridge is £216 per year and covers two co-parents — equivalent to £9 per month per parent. You can pay it yourself or split it £108 each. Evenli Link is £300 per year and covers up to six family members on a single subscription, useful for blended families with grandparents or new partners.
- Yes. You can export your messages and shared expenses to PDF at any time from your dashboard. Evenli is designed around timestamped, exportable records — useful for mediation sessions, solicitor meetings, court bundles or your own personal archive.